First, an introduction of sorts
My name's Steve, and I work as a technical communicator in
Morris County, New Jersey, about an hour west of New York City.
Before coming to Jersey in March 1996, I'd lived my entire life
in the Upper Midwest, most recently in Fargo, North Dakota --
which I consider my home.
I knew that I'd have a lot of adjustments to make.
Oh, yeah. North Jersey and North Dakota are about as far
apart psychically as you can be in the Lower 48. A few bumps seemed
inevitable.
I was drawn to New Jersey by an offer of a new job
and an opportunity to build some technical skills I didn't have
yet. New York City also was a draw. Before making the move, I'd
been to New York several times, but I'd never made it closer to
Jersey than the Statue of Liberty. From there, Jersey looked dirty
and industrial -- not at all inviting, but not an accurate reflection
of the state as a whole, as it turned out.
When I arrived, I had plenty of stereotypes to lose
- the state isn't paved over or an impenetrable forest of factories,
as I'd presumed, and it isn't a single solid suburb from New York
to Philadelphia. Most of the people I've met don't have strong
Jersey accents. I haven't seen any mobsters,
so far as I know, and I haven't been set upon by ruffians, at
least not yet.
I found that some things are true. It's breathtakingly
expensive to live here. Life doesn't seem to go as smoothly here,
and sometimes it can be vexing as hell. Traffic
can be murder. Sometimes.
One of my favorite things about North Jersey --
and I apologize to native Jerseyans -- is easy access to New York City,
which I consider the absolute center of the known universe. I
think I've lost most of my fear of the city, but not my awe.
OK, so why do this website?
After I'd been here awhile, I began to realize how
much information I was collecting about this place. It seems like
a good idea to capture that. It may -- I hope -- make someone's
transition to life in the East a little easier, or their visit
a little more enjoyable. For me, I hope it helps me to remember
what it means to be a Midwesterner. I don't ever want to lose
that. If it helps me to make this new place my home, so much the
better.
This site isn't definitive, by any means, and if
you live here, you're free to disagree with my opinions. If you
find blatant factual errors, please let me know.
If you have questions, send them my way
too -- I'll answer them if I can. (Having said that, let me assure
you that I can't -- or won't -- get you tickets for the Rangers
or "Cats.") Thanks for stopping by; I hope you have
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